First fight

My boss got really really mad at me today. It was the first time he has ever verbally told me that he was mad at me. First time we have had conflict. 

He was asking me if I would ever date a black guy, cause he knows a guy that would be good for me, but he's in Virginia. I responded "that's no problem, I can move to Virginia" well that was the first of a very ugly 10 minutes. He told me that he saw that that I have been looking at other jobs. He told me that he doesn't want me to leave. And he was HURT by my openness and willingness to go. I asked about the guy applying to be my boss. He told me he was really stupid in doing that, but doesn't know what he is going to do about him. I didn't say it directly tonight, but I implied that I will look for jobs if he is going to be my boss.  

Being an adult is hard. My boss has told me that I do a great job and doesn't want me to leave. We have a great working relationship. But as good as that is. I can't continue to do what I do in these current conditions. It's too much stress to not trust this almost key player in my job who doesn't know what he is doing and I think is going to intentionally hurt me a few months down the road. 

I just want to run away from that pain..